
The Version of Success We’re Still Chasing (And Why)
I realised something uncomfortable recently. A lot of what I still think of as “success”… doesn’t actually belong to me. The Blueprint We Never Questioned
There should be a disclaimer for this phase of life. Something that says: “You may experience hormonal shifts… while raising
If I could say one thing to younger adults today, it would be this: Don’t rush into building a wedding.
I knew the word. Perimenopause. I’d heard it in passing. Read about it vaguely. Filed it under “later.” Something to
There’s a very specific time of day where everything shifts. Around 3pm. You’re not fully productive. Not fully relaxed. Just…
I have a complicated relationship with group chats. On one hand—they’re useful. Information. Updates. Plans. On the other hand… they’re
I stood in front of my wardrobe the other day and said the most predictable thing possible: “I have nothing

I realised something uncomfortable recently. A lot of what I still think of as “success”… doesn’t actually belong to me. The Blueprint We Never Questioned

There are days when I feel tired before the day has even properly begun. Not physically. Not the kind of tired that comes from doing

I used to say this a lot: “I just don’t have the time.” It felt true. It sounded valid. And honestly, it ended most conversations.

I caught myself doing it the other day. Mid-conversation. Mid-sentence, actually. Saying something that sounded like me… but didn’t quite feel like me. Not a